Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Finally Satisfied

I have spent the last 2 days searching diligently for some friends of mine (and Laura's) that I lost contact with in the past few years. Since our last contact, phone numbers have changed and it's been a chore attempting to find them. And the thing is, I could have driven there and found them sooner (I feel sure) than finding them online and through family members - which happened to be final step before I reached them.

So, this morning I got back on that task and around noon today, I finally heard the voices I was interested in hearing. And oh, how good it did my heart! I could have talked all day. It was such a wonderful feeling!

After I finally talked to both of them, I called my mom and Laura to tell them the news. Mom was just relieved that I'd quit calling to tell of my failures - I think I was driving her crazy about it! I finally called after about 15 times to tell her that I'd been successful! I felt like some weight had been lifted right off my chest. Every time Mom has answered the phone for the past two days, her greeting has been, "Did you get them?" LOL!

Recently while I was home in Alabama a week or so ago, I was reading through a long list of "Life's Rules"(or something like that) that still hang in my old bedroom. It's been there for ages. I left it there when I moved. I read through it every time I go back. One of the last things that is written there is "Rekindle old friendships!" So, between having that phrase stuck in my head and posting that song "Count on Me," it was just too much to ignore.

It's such a rewarding task! I promise you it will make your week if you try it....just like it has mine! So, now that I've experienced such a pleasurable day, let me encourage you to do the same. Call a friend you haven't talked to in a while. It's easy to get so caught up in daily life and totally forget the ones that matter.

So, Tina and Tosha, welcome back to my world! To you who read my blog on a regular basis, I just wanted to introduce you to the ones who have inspired me! These are the individuals that I was referring to from my teenage years on the post with the "Count On Me" video. They are a mother / daughter team and I love them to pieces.

Now, my heart is finally satisfied. My goal has been achieved. And I'm so grateful!


9 comments:

Barb said...

And I, too, am glad you finally got up with them! I would love to see them again. If we ever get a "girls" day in Sevierville, maybe they could meet us and we could spend some time together. Sounds like a plan!

Unknown said...

thankyou soooo much for not giving up.sorry i was so hard to find.lol!you will never know how many times you and your whole family have crossed my mind.looking forward to our new found old friendship.

Anita said...

We definitely have tons to catch up on. Yesterday evening Laura and discussed some of the wonderful memories we had of you guys. One of them was laying around in the basement one night because we were all so burnt from swimming that we couldn't move. We were so miserable!

Somehow she also remembered Furman making us grilled cheeses for breakfast on Saturday morning! I have no idea how she remembers this. LOL!

Unknown said...

we have so much to talk about.i went through my pics of all of us back then,and honey wait till you see them.lol!ya'll are gonna kill me! :)i need to get you and laura's address so i can send you some copies.do you remember cruising with mom in her big mini van?those were the days!mom has tried to post comments too...i'm gonna have to help her!bless her little heart!

Anita said...

Lol! Yes I remember the white van with the high top. We discussed that too. And riding through Seneca playing our song as loud as we could get away with.
And Yeah, we have got some pictures too. They're quite ridiculous if I have to say so myself!! Lol!! Oh but those were the days....

Unfortunately Laura doesn't have access to this conversation untilte evenings. Wait til she gets involved!

Unknown said...

Count on me through thick and thin

A friendship that will never end

When you are weak, I will be strong

Hoping you to carry on

Call on me, I will be there

Don't be afraid

Please don't hate me when I say

Be strong



I can see it's hurting you

I can feel the pain

It's hard to see the sunshine through the rain, oh

I know sometimes it seems as if

It's never gonna end

But you'll get through it

Just don't give in 'cause you can



Count on me through thick and thin

A friendship that will never end

When you are weak, I will be strong

Hoping you to carry on

Call on me, I will be there

Don't be afraid

Please believe me when I say

Count on, you can count on me

(oh yes you can)



I know sometimes it seems as if

We're standing all alone

But we'll get through it

'cause love won't let us fall



Count on me through thick and thin

A friendship that will never end

When you are weak, I will be strong

Hoping you to carry on

Call on me, I will be there

Don't be afraid

Please believe me when I say

Count on



There's a place inside of all of us

Where our faith in love begins

You should reach to find the truth in love

The answers there condesend, oh

I know that life can make you feel

It's much harder than it really is

But we'll get through it

Just don't give in



Count on me through thick and thin

A friendship that will never end

When you are weak, I will be strong

Hoping you to carry on

Call on me, I will be there

Don't be afraid

Please believe me when I say

Count on

Tina said...

why won't it let me comment!!!

Tina said...

Well,,,I'll be. I finally did it. Hello Everybody! How wonderful it is to hear from Barbara, Anita and Laura!!!! I missed you gals bunches. I am 2 days behind in my work now cause I couldn't get in this thingy. Anita, hope you didn't have to change too much just to help me get in here. I LOVE YALL! : ) Thank you for being my friend

Anita said...

I'm so glad that you finally were able to join us Tina! I'm so sorry you had all the trouble!

Now Ethel, I know you don't remember all those words by heart! I bet you cheated and copied them! Lol! I just love it! I guess I've not mentioned that often enough though, have I?

I'm so glad you two have joined in on my little piece of the internet here. Hopefully you'll stick around!